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Professor and (girl) student
I have problem with man since very few men I met I like. I am in late 21th. But now I am taking a class with Professor that I very like as a man and I think he likes me too by the way he looks at me. Of course it is my fantazy. But would an experienced man would advise me to do. I am a good student, I do not short term relations and I do not want to marry yet. I just want a man with who I could spend time, enjoy being with him and should be safe.
I think that Professor I am talking about fit my wishings. He is about 35 years old. But there is a prablem he is married and his wife is pregnant. What I want from him is to be my lover. Since I have plans to study in graduate school and I don't want any responsibilities right now. I am so confused. Please what would you say on my rave. I want to say that I tried to get to know some younger men but I can stand them I just want to run from them from the first talk I have with them. I also wnat to say that in my life I had only two man that I have such a filling that I would like to get to know him more and one of them is that Professor. May be I stupid? May be I old fashioned? May be what I think is unreal and never can be achieved? WHAT TO DO?
May be I should forget about whole men? BUT I like men a lot but some kind of special men. PLEASE answer on my crazy, unreasonable, foolish rave. I apologyze if it is very studpid.
Vika © (22.02.2001 10:02)
I don`t think that such a young girl needs experience like this( I mean relationship with a married man who also has a pregnant wife, it´ll be a hopeless and bitter love) But I think that there is nothing special and crazy when girl students fall in love with their teachers. You can only wait till this feeling is gone by itself. And I can advise you to keep distance to him.
P.S. Why do you write in English? I suppose not everybody speaks and writes English and it´s possible that you´ll get only a few answers.
Inna © (22.02.2001 14:02) Прямая ссылка
Vika? don't worry about this too much. I was in love with my math teacher for almost a year... We exchanged looks, e-mails, words sometimes, but nothing more than that. We never even kissed, and I'm glad to be honest. I found my love in the face of another man, who was older as well, but not my teacher, of course. Just LOOK for YOUR mr. Right, not anybody else's...
Anutka © (22.02.2001 19:02) Прямая ссылка
Oh, I do not have russian keyboard. I would like to write in russian.
Vika © (22.02.2001 22:02) Прямая ссылка
evgeny © (05.04.2001 23:04) Прямая ссылка
Thank you Inna for advise.
I do keep distance. In class I act so that not to get any attantion on myself and after class I leave as soon as possible and I always go so that there are no ways for me to meet with him. I don't think he knows that I even noticed/think/like him. I understand that it is just physical attraction and it will disappear. I just had one of that depressed times when your mind leave you for a moment. THANK YOU I agree with all you advise me. I kept a very big distance and keep it and I will keep it. I think that it is the only right decision "wait till this feeling is gone". I get this strange feeling only after his class than I use all logic possible to get rid of that feeling and after I get to his class again it renews. I just want this semester to end.
Vika © (22.02.2001 22:02) Прямая ссылка
Run away from him and dont turn around! Just think if you were his pregnant wife... Don't be cruel to her!
Find sbd who won't be your teacher. And of course he must be a single person.
Good luck!
Mila © (22.02.2001 14:02) Прямая ссылка
Mila © (22.02.2001 14:02) Прямая ссылка
I have asked my husband about it ( he is a professor too ), and he have said that not only you can get in trouble for that if it all comes to the eyes and the ears of publik, but also your professor can be fired for that. So, live him alone and remember: to be the wife of professor, you have to marrie a student :)
Nika. © (22.02.2001 20:02) Прямая ссылка
Nika. © (22.02.2001 20:02) Прямая ссылка
Tnank you very much for advice. It was a time of confusion and depression. Of course I would not even try to brake a family or try to seduce that man. I think he does not even know that I like him (I do not love him). However, I think that one does not have to marry a student to become a wife of a professor. And I do not have in mind to find a man that is (end-product). I just want a man I will enjoy being with, that is all. BUT thank you very much for your advice to live him alone. You really put my mind back. And I do not have to live him alone since I never bothered him but I have to live myself alone and just study.
Thank you Nika.
Vika © (22.02.2001 22:02) Прямая ссылка
